His old man never did ANYTHING for anyone aprt from himself...and his son is a chip off the old block.hd1 wrote:His old man was an absolute gent, shame it didn't rub off
My Old Man was a major charity organiser around the area (he got an OBE for it ) and was a Hammer to boot. It gave him no joy at all to not have a decent word for the Lampards or a certain Geoff Hurst who he hated with a vengence due to his behavior towards anything that wasn't for himself.Whiskyman wrote:
All about opinions of course but we shouldn't blame him if he got preferential treatment. Surely that's the fault of Twitchy who was the manager at the time.
And I must admit I've only met FLJ once, when I took my youngest, many years ago, to Chadwell Heath to get some photos of the players. After training they all came off and both Lampards stopped and had a word with my lad who was dressed in his boys' team kit and FLJ actually had a little game of head tennis with him.
But you never know, on another day------
Fair enough, maybe my opinions would be same if I had similar experiences to you. I am speaking from a point of view of watching young Frank as a player and now TV pundit. For sure he may of thrown his toys out of the pram when things weren't going his way but who doesn't? It appears like he's developed into a grounded fella when on TV. I see as I find but from a further distance than you Romford.Romford wrote:My Old Man was a major charity organiser around the area (he got an OBE for it ) and was a Hammer to boot. It gave him no joy at all to not have a decent word for the Lampards or a certain Geoff Hurst who he hated with a vengence due to his behavior towards anything that wasn't for himself.Whiskyman wrote:
All about opinions of course but we shouldn't blame him if he got preferential treatment. Surely that's the fault of Twitchy who was the manager at the time.
And I must admit I've only met FLJ once, when I took my youngest, many years ago, to Chadwell Heath to get some photos of the players. After training they all came off and both Lampards stopped and had a word with my lad who was dressed in his boys' team kit and FLJ actually had a little game of head tennis with him.
But you never know, on another day------
I agree about opinions....I personally got messed around by Tonka a couple of times but others have said he was a gent.
This is the first place i've ever heard a decent word about either of the Lampards.....and i lived around the corner from them.
See as you find though mate
I think the fat Frank thing happened when he had a bit of puppy fat in his early days as if you watch some of the older videos back and compare them to when he was a Chelsea player it is clear he carried a bit of weight but it was the claims of nepotism that was quite toxic. Wasnt his fault he was picked and frankly, many of our fans were out of order as they often seem to be. Ince was far worse in what he did and I got chucked out of the South Bank for telling him so but I cant believe people still hold grudges with him as I realise now it was really his agent at fault. Felt the same about Defoe but forgave him and now I appreciate what he did for young Bradleyterrya1965 wrote:IMO,there were some ignorant West Ham fans,who knew f*ck all about football and the sheep followed them.LondonWelsh wrote:Just stumbled upon this, never agreed with the shite he received. Top player, top pundit and a sound fella. Loved watching him in claret and blue at Upton Park during the late nineties when I used to attend the games proper. Halcyon days looking back at it today!
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Many could see Frank had potential,but it was the ignorant fans that stood out.For me,he was treated disgracefully.I am an older fan that see many of his Dad`s matches and knew the family were West Ham through and through.He went on,because of his hard work,to become one of the PL 's great players.
The thing is,I still hear the fans singing "Fat Frank" songs.Shame really,because I think Frank could have come back here to manage West Ham.I really think his got the ability to become a top manager.
I've coached a kids Under 16 team and on occasions other age groups at a local club for many years and our club secretary wrote to all the major clubs in London our side of the river (North) as well as Watford, Luton and Stevenage,our local clubs, asking them for contact details etc if any of our coaches thought a kid was maybe good enough to benefit from professional coaching. I'll give you 3 guesses which was the ONLY club to not even give our secretary the courtesy of a response. But I think you'll only need one guess.Romford wrote: Lets be honest..if my boy was good at football I wouldn't allow him anywhere near our club sadly.
hd1 wrote:His old man was an absolute gent, shame it didn't rub off
Doesn't surprise me at all about Parlour tbh. Some years back, when he'd just broken into the Arsenal first team, a local pub team round our way had a presentation do. Can't remember who asked him or if there was any connection but apparently Ray Parlour came along all the way to Welwyn Garden City (he lived in Romford didn't he?) to do the presentations and have a crack with the lads there. Never met the bloke personally but seems the type of bloke anyone would enjoy a pint with.grandad wrote:Years ago when i was running a youth team i called west ham regards maybe getting a player to give our the trophy's etc
we won the double that season.
big ask i thought but was given a number to call by the club ( i was thinking yes im in luck here ) i called and got quoted all sorts of money for this player and that player to attend and give trophy's out ... so being a self funding team i couldn't and wouldn't of paid the money they were asking and thought i give them out myself... i was telling the parents about this and one of the dads worked with ray parlours dad at the time and said he would ask him
anyway he said yes he would and did it for nothing and stayed nearly 3 hours with the boys and parents chatting and what a fantastic bloke.